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Bearing Witness in Mediation

Bearing Witness in Mediation 

by Laurie Israel 

Published in mediate.com, August, 2020

Recently I’ve been pondering a certain aspect of my experience with mediating divorces. It’s about something that often comes up in my encounters with my mediation clients.  

The feature of all mediations that I will talk about in this post is something I call “bearing witness.”  When clients bear witness in mediation, and when you, as the mediator bear witness for the clients, it can be quite powerful in resolving a divorce. But it needs to be handled properly, or it can be dangerous and get out of control.  If that happens, it can lead to destabilizing and destructive results impairing the ability of the mediation process to address and resolve conflict.  

Bearing witness can occur either during meetings, or as part of the clients’ email exchanges (which you…

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